I just read Ibizan's response in the topic about why your marriage works and that pretty much sums up it up.My bro is outgoing and has a great sense of humor so making others laugh is second nature to him.Not having that ability reciprocated in his own marriage is depressing the hell out of him.
I have know this other girl for a long time, since high school. She seems to be in my thoughts a little more than I think she should be. IF so what did you do, or is this really a bad thing.
I don't have ANY intention of doing anything with her.
Everyone's mind wanders from time to time, whether we like to admit it to ourselves or not.
These are exactly the types of things that everyone deals with, without bringing it up with their partner.
It's completely natural to wonder about other partners...
what may have been different, what may have been better, etc.The important part is that you work everyday towards being happy with the decisions that you've made in your life.In general, acting on impulses like these lead to bad situations... when I first got hitched I thought about an old high school sweet heart all the time. Fact is my wife has been hotter for 20 years and there is not chance I would ever want any of the old one. But recently I have been having dreams of a different girl.I have know this other girl for a long time, since high school. She seems to be in my thoughts a little more than I think she should be. IF so what did you do, or is this really a bad thing. I just figured it was a side effect of being in a monogomous relationship. I didn't figure I was the only guy in a serious relationship/married who had thought of another woman.I don't have ANY intention of doing anything with her. Just freaked me out a little when this girl popped into my dreams so many times in a row. He doesn't think of a specific "other woman" but he doesn't know if his wife is the right one for him.I have had dreams about one of my wife's close friends. I also agree with the comment "the grass isn't always greener on the other side". He's been married 11 yrs and while he loves his wife she doesn't seem to make him laugh.